In The Midst of Dissociation ~Day 95~ Roadblocks

Merry Meet,

Day 95, roadblocks. Fucking roadblocks. I’m not sure what the fuck I’m doing wrong to keep getting these roadblocks thrown up in my face. It’s funny because before I found out that the new apartment we were hoping to get fell through, my Tarot card this morning predicted it. You can check that out Here. So I’m not as devastated as I would have been if I didn’t pull that card earlier. Sure there is a small chance it can still go through but I’m not holding my breath.

So that there is a roadblock to having a roof over our heads before we get evicted from our home of 14 years. I am really out of options as I see it. I will continue to look for solutions anyway because I am stubborn and do not like to take no for an answer. The problem is I have come across a lot of people in similar housing situations and they’re not happy stories. And we plug along hoping something comes through. I need a sign, I need something tangible from The God/dess. The card I drew earlier implied living alone. I hope that isn’t in a cardboard box somewhere. lol Yea, I can lol about it but I am really terrified. I have absolutely no control over this situation and I have been doing all I can. So, we go back to doing what we don’t do best — waiting. Good grief, I am just so sensitive and fragile. That is a hard thing to accept but it is fact right now. The good thing is I dumped baggage recently and feel so much better without it!

On the flip side… I am looking forward to a new beginning. I am hopeful that something will come through for me and Coco. I am not as worried about Marshall because he can always stay with his father.

I don’t know, maybe this is a good thing but I’m such a control freak that this makes my OCD tendencies fly right up the scale. I just really want to be in my IOP groups right at this moment.

I have been working on this post on and off all day, well, for the past 5 hours or so lol. I’m all out of sorts because things are piling up again. The wait on the court date, well, for that I can say I will keep on waiting lol! Nothing yet. We check again in the morning.

Another roadblock is the state discontinuing my cash as of tomorrow. Why? Because they claim they never received my paperwork from December. The sad thing is that we sent the paperwork in and we can’t even resend what was originally sent. Reason being the therapist and Pdoc I had back then, I no longer have. All my rx and therapy is done through Yale now so I have to have them fill out the forms. I can’t even request a hearing because by the time I got the letter saying they were discontinuing the benefits the timeframe was up. They give you 10 days from the date of the letter. I got the letter on day 9. Is that going to stop me from requesting a hearing anyway and stating that fact? No. What have I got to lose? They are not giving me the SAGA for May anyway.

I just think I need to find a detour.



It’s hard to hang in there when someone is bashing your fingers with a sledgehammer. However as much as it hurts and as much as it takes its toll… I will hang in there! I trust. I believe. Something good will come out of this. I will not be broken.

just hang in kitty1

Blessed Be,
Diana (April 29, 2015)

Mystical Cats Tarot ~ Nine of Earth ~ April 29, 2015

Merry Meet!

I set my intent for our housing situation. We may have a place we may not… so lets see what the Nine of Earth brings me. See if it has a meaning for you. What would you like some clarity from The Universe for?

Nine of Earth

Nine of Earth:

The pleasures of clan life are great, but there is also happiness to be found in solitude, especially as we get older and may want to take life at a slower pace. This Earth Cat serenely watches the world go by from the peace of her enclosed garden. No other cat shares her home, but she isn’t lonely. Her thoughts and memories are company enough, and her wise heart is filled with contentment.

The Cat’s Advice:

You have earned your place in the sun. Claim your right to retreat into the solitude of contentment. Being on your own to contemplate beauty is a kind of prosperity that feeds the soul. Not everything is meant to be shared, even with loved ones. Deep happiness awaits you in the walled garden of the spirit.

Um, ok.
I gave this situation up to The God/dess a while ago but I don’t see how I could possibly live on my own. I cannot afford it at this time. Maybe once I have my hearing for disability I will be able to but we all know that the government works at a snail’s pace. To make matters worse they took away my SAGA cash until I get the paperwork in that my case worker and I took care of in December. So today we actually go to see out case worker and we can get this crap taken care of (again). It’s almost more stressful getting help than it is giving up.

I like the last line there: Deep happiness awaits you in the walled garden of the spirit. Actually, I like the advice as a whole. I believe I have earned my place in the sun and I do need to claim my right to retreat into the solitude of contentment. Maybe this doesn’t necessarily mean living alone literally… but retreating into myself and connecting to Spirit.

Happiness found in solitude. Hmmm a think-about-er. lol 

This would be a good one to meditate on and maybe vlog about. If you want to see yesterdays vlog on the Nine of Fire you can see it Here.

Thanks for stopping by!
~Blessed Be~

~Diana~ (April 29, 2015)